Learn to Finally Love Your LifeIf happiness, ease, consistency, and grace are what you long for, I’m here to tell you that it’s nowhere near as hard as it seems.

Being a woman in 2019 means certain things: You are a survivor. You have made it through the gauntlet of your young adulthood, your crazies, your first bad mistakes and you’re “not-so-great” choices. You’ve gained wisdom. Perspective. Answers. And still, life isn’t easy.

In fact, it’s hard.

As much as you have learned, sometimes it feels like you’re literally creating your future out of thin air. Who will you be tomorrow? What will the world, men, relationships, your career, and your world demand of you next?

And who do you want to be to the world?

As young women, many of you changed as the wind blew. Inventing yourself and trying to be the “right” partner, lover, employee, friend, and daughter the world told you to be.

As a grown woman, you get to decide. You get to choose.

That is the gift of growing up. Whether you’re 30 or 70, it is your right and privilege to be the person you want to be.

I’m going to be flat out honest with you, my dear:  you’ll only live a happy life when you love the life you live. An evolved modern woman knows what she wants, and loves the life she has.

Flaws and all. Conflict and all.

If Happiness is what you craveNot in comparison with the women she sees on social media or in the magazines, but in gratitude for the woman she sees in the mirror.

The woman who loves her life doesn’t bend (and sometimes break) with the wind, she flows with it, rooted to the earth confidently and bravely. She is a force to be reckoned with who no longer allows the thoughts that rule her mind and heart to lead her to poor choices or harmful decisions out of fear, or lack of worth, or obligation.

A woman who loves her life values herself equally with others without sacrificing her very self-worth to gain a whisper of acceptance or connection to another.

This was my path to true self acceptance and a life filled with pride, joy, passion, adventure, and love.

If you want this (or your own version of it), allow me to teach you how to finally love your life & stop living with unnecessary regret, suffering, & stress.

Because truthfully, if you’re over the age of 25 and still struggling to feel comfortable in your own skin, free of the burdens of your family, your obligations, or your past, then it’s time to break out of this subpar existence.

The blueprint to be a “modern woman” doesn’t exist; we all get there in our own way. And that can make it very hard to know which paths lead to happiness, and which ones lead to stress, anxiety, and regret.

Following the examples of fake lives on social media doesn’t help us either. No one REALLY looks like they do on Pinterest. Perfection is an illusion far too many people swallow like Kool-aid.  All we really have to guide us are the few good intimate relationships where we carved out happiness, sometimes only for a short while.

How those relationships translate into a formula for happiness is confusing. What works in one are of our lives, rarely works the same in another. But there is a common thread that weaves them all together. And when that thread is woven through our whole lives, well, magic happens.

Let me teach you how to finally love your life & stop living with unnecessary regret, suffering, & stress.

Where you are on this journey is a part of the universal experience you must go through to find your own version of happily ever after. No one can do it for you, AND if you want to be happy, you must do it for yourself.

I know because I’ve done it. I’m Debra Smouse. I have been a life coach for over a decade, but beyond being a life coach, I’m a woman in my fifties living a life that I love.

And that, my dear, is no small feat in this modern life.

I know what it takes to walk this path, because I’ve done it. To help the women in my life, I pulled together my best tips, tricks, and life hacks that took me from barely hanging on to thriving in my own life.

Finally Love Your Life is an 11-week online course with live support.

You’ll never be the woman you want to be until you take that first step. Won’t you join me? Allow me to help guide and witness your journey from who you are TODAY and who you really desire to be.

Included in the course will be the following modules:

  • Module 1.  Mapping Out Your Foundation For Change
  • Module 2.  Get Clear On Who You Are & What You Want
  • Module 3.  Embracing Your True Self & True Essence
  • Module 4.  Are You Sabotaging Your Own Happiness? Exploring Common Ways People Self-sabotage
  • Module 5.  Will You Choose to be Bitter Or Soften & Age Gracefully?
  • Module 6.  Rid Your Life of Toxic Inputs
  • Module 7.  Little Ways & Pleasure
  • Module 8.  Toxic Relationships
  • Module 9.  Finding Solace In Your Own Company
  • Module 10.  Vulnerability As A Superpower
  • Module 11.  Taking Your Work Forward

Tools you’ll receive to help you through the course:

  • Eleven weeks of transformational course and curriculum
  • Jump-start your personal development with the Bonus workshop and workbook: Diving into the Depths of Your Desires
  • Video introduction with each of the eleven modules
  • Three lessons per module. Note that lessons are presented in a written format and audio download to address all learning styles.
  • Downloadable worksheets to accelerate your learning and assist you in growing.
  • Weekly challenges to take your work to the next level
  • Private Access to the Membership Website to revisit the curriculum at any time
  • Bi-Weekly “Office Hours” for group coaching (audio recording shared in case you miss it)
  • Bonus “Real Talk” Videos
  • Private Facebook group for support, community, and encouragement from fellow participants.

Bonus interviews from amazing women to help illustrate what “Loving Your Life” looks like in action from luminaries, including:

The investment for Lifetime Access to this transformational course is $795

This course includes lifetime access to the material and training. My commitment to you is that every time it’s offered, you’re automatically in. This includes additional bonus interviews and any course updates.

Join me now. We officially begin on work together on September 29th, 2019!

What People Are Saying About Finally Love Your Life

“No matter what age or stage we are, sometimes life just isn’t everything we want it to be. This course offers amazing insight into some of the many reasons why.

Deb Smouse has prepared an intensive program to help decipher the ways we can derail our own happiness, and, most importantly, lots of concrete tips and tricks for getting back on course to Finally Love Your Life.”

Becca Rowan


“FLYL is an authentic and deep yet practical and fun program all wrapped up into one.  Debra’s extensive knowledge coupled with her emotive writing and ginormous heart provide the tools, support and space to explore and discover, evaluate and play.  As a result of class, I was able to dig in and shift some major challenges that were keeping me stuck in annoying and frustrating patterns.

I also realized how little time I was devoting to having FUN and making time for simple pleasures.  With these insights and some easy changes, I have grown, gotten more courageous and have way more delight and joy in my life. ”

Michelle Reinhardt

Life Coach

“I thought this was an extremely beneficial and well thought out class. The information was delivered in such a manner that there was no way I could “cheat” myself out of delving into the subject matter.

 Some days I was in the mood to listen to the audio, others, I enjoyed reading and rereading. The worksheets were key as they helped me transition what I was reading into personalized knowledge of myself and an action plan.

I appreciated the real guidance and suggestions that were given. For example, Debra didn’t just say it is important to rest, she gave real examples of what rest looked like to her, and in turn, helped me think of ways I could put it into practice. It is a very interactive class and in each module I experienced at least one aha moment.

We are all in different phases of life, so certain modules will appeal more or less depending upon where you are at.

I would highly recommend this course.

Years ago someone told me, “You would never drive a car without putting in gas, getting the oil changed, replacing the fluids, why on earth would you go through life without mental and physical checkups.”

This class is a great way to get the mental oil changed. I feel ready to go another 50,000 miles.”

Jeanette McGurk

Writer & Artist